Something I wrote on my diary long time ago, maybe I should share?
How many of you have ever felt this way: Sadness, feeling down, feeling useless, fate has taken its toll on your life, hard & ridiculous to accept the truth, facts hurt, being bullied all your life, being betrayed, etc.. You just can't accept the fact because the fact is too cruel.. Cruelly real and there's nothing you could do about it not even a slight change..
It's destroying your hope & your wishes were gone in minutes.. Have you ever felt this way? Yes I have.. And I've learnt a few lessons here..
1. Embrace it!!! No matter what no matter how painful it hurts.. No matter if you would need to shed endless tears... Cry it out and shout it loud " yes, I accept it, that's the fact, that's the truth" I mean, really accept it with wide opened arms..
2. Move on!!! Well said but in reality, it takes milestones to start on.. Starting is hard but remember you have embraced everything.. There's no point to dip your self into deep sadness.. Start planning now!!!
3. Get new activity! Focusing yourself into something new and enjoyable. Distract yourself totally!
4. Let go the past! I know it's easier to say than to get it forgotten.. But again let go your hatred and embrace it.. That's how you let go your past.. Once you accept it with opened arms.. Past is just a story you read from a story book...
5. Be grateful! You are very lucky to be alive, you are lucky to be healthy, you are lucky to have someone who loves you, you are lucky to have a home, you are lucky to have a family... And so on and so on.. So when the tornado hits you and hurts you badly.. It won't affect much your life because you are blessed in every way... Remember, every time when you think " why must it be me ?" you think of someone whose life is a thousand times worst than you.. You think of someone who sleeps on the street, you think of someone who starves every day, you think of someone who is very very sick.. As the matter of fact, it's not worth to be down of "one ugly fact".. You have 100 beautiful facts...
6. And this will pass on too.. Human being, animal, wealth, health, everything anything will pass on.. Will be gone...Just the matter of time.. So why not to let go?? Losing one hope will bring in double hopes.. Remember that!
7. Be happy, life is short, pursue your dream, live in anyway that can make you happy.. Because happiness comes from yourself! You create it! Live a meaningful life with no regret left when you leave this world and don't take things for granted!
God bless you in every way abundantly :)
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